When a relationship ends, parenting doesn’t. Many North Carolina families find that joint physical custody offers the healthiest path forward, allowing both parents to stay actively involved while maintaining structure for the child.
At Bourlon & Davis, P.A., we help parents navigate this balance with clarity and compassion.
What Joint Physical Custody Really Means
In North Carolina, joint physical custody means both parents share substantial, though not always equal, time with their child. It doesn’t require a perfect 50/50 split. It requires a meaningful presence in the child’s life. Each family’s arrangement is unique, based on school schedules, work commitments, and proximity of homes.
How Courts Decide Custody
Judges prioritize the child’s best interests, considering:
- Each parent’s stability and home environment
- Ability to communicate and cooperate
- Emotional bond with the child
- History of violence, neglect, or substance use
Joint custody works best when both parents can co-parent respectfully and make consistent decisions together.
Crafting a Parenting Plan That Works
A well-defined parenting plan removes confusion and prevents conflict. Our attorneys help parents design schedules covering holidays, decision-making, transportation, and extracurriculars. We also help include clear communication guidelines, because peace in parenting starts with clarity.

Adjusting Over Time
Life changes. If one parent relocates or work hours shift, we assist with custody modifications that keep the arrangement fair and sustainable. The goal is always to protect the child’s routine and emotional balance, even when circumstances evolve.
Let’s Create a Plan That Fits Your Family
Joint custody requires cooperation, patience, and good legal structure. With the right plan, it can give your child the stability they deserve and give both parents the space to grow into their new lives.
📞 Call Bourlon & Davis, P.A. today to discuss your custody options and build a parenting plan that truly works for your family.
